As controversy continue to trail the marriage of Nigeria music legend Innocent Idibia, popularly known as 2baba to Annie Idibia, the singer’s younger brother Charly has bared his mind on the development.
Recall that Annie Idibia is currently embroiled in a war with her husband’s family over one of 2baba’s baby mama Pero who has 3 kids for the singer.
Annie has accused Pero of always using her children to lure her husband to bed. As a result, she allegedly removed her husband name Idibia her IG handle, accusing the singer’s family of never liking her despite all her efforts to win them over.
Charly, whom Annie also accused of always trying to milk her husband dry, took to instagram to bare his mind with a lengthy post.
He wrote; I pray for composure as I write these and I pray for clarity because there is so much to say. This is in no shape or form an attack on anybody, I just want to create a peaceful space in my heart and move forward.
Annie, I am sure you’re shocked that all this is coming from me, because in your heart of hearts you know I have always loved you and treated you the best way a brother in-law should…not because you gave me reasons to, but because I tried to see you through Inno’s eyes, and what he loved I cherished.
Respect is not a title, respect is a gesture…a feeling you give and you feel when you are given. Even thou I have been nothing but respectful to you…you can’t actually be demanding respect from me anymore when you have none for your husband or any for members of his family, his friends or his staff.
You publicly humiliate him every chance you get, from pouring him food at my wedding to throwing a bottle of Hennessey at him at the top of your lungs in front of his celebrity friends or acquaintances…fights at the airport…just to mention a few…over matters that could have been addressed privately…or is it you asking your maids to lock the doors and send the keys to you in South Africa even thou you knew your mother-in-law was in the house visiting her son and grand kids from Abuja, and out of respect for herself she came to stay at my house…what was her crime?
Or is it you attacking my wife barely 3weeks after we lost our baby…just because she wouldn’t join in your never unending war with ‘baby mamas’ and ‘Enemies’ that you create from thin air…just because you said ‘Yes’ and they said ‘No’.
Pls tell me sis…where should I begin to respect you from?
You are quick to shout and mention 7 kids and your husband being sulked dry, but you filled your household up with 4maids, 2 P.A, a live-in mum, a live-in cousin, and a brother at the annex…all to take care of your daughters…the other kids are far away…but somehow its singular me who visits once in a blue moon from my house in Festac that’s the problem?…which in-laws haven’t been giving you space in your house…pls tell me?
You think when I sit to chat with Inno, which we rarely do…it will always be to talk about money?… that’s all you think we share as brothers…because am not a millionaire.
You don’t ever visit, you don’t ever call or pick your calls, you reply text messages only when it benefits you…I am the one who shows up with gifts on birthdays, and holidays…tell me Annie, have you ever sent a single good wish card to your only in-law in Lagos, in bad health or in good times?
Oh…you’re a celebrity, you are busy and always tired…I should understand right? All your love is seen only on Instagram …all for the photo-op (the good wife who accommodates despite all) …love.
Pls…where are the in-laws who are trying to destroy your marriage?
Funny enough, the in-laws’ accepted you wholeheartedly for the sake of their son and tried to grow in love and harmony with you, but you never saw it…because you were already blinded by pre-installed hate.
You should know better not to force us to choose sides over trhis matter when there is innocent kids involved who are also sons and daughters , nieces and nephews…all we can do as responsible people is to broker peace…no matter how difficult.
The happiness of the home is for us all…but war is your only language.
Finally…what scares me most these days is the violence, where does it end Annie…the fights…your husband has his own wahala but…is that going to be your solution to this complicated situation life has thrown at you?
Is it when you stab him in the chest while he sleeps over a call from Pero demanding that he speaks with to his kids in the middle of the night due to time difference from the U.S…for example…that you will have peace?…when he is dead then what?…you would be right…and we would be wrong…then what?
How does he even function as a musician from that kind of environment? Have a rethink Annie, you made us victims of your rage and the war you have chosen never to let go…yet you are quick to cry fowl.
We can’t agree with you all the time, because na your husband be ‘King’ and you are the Queen we must all bow to your every command and when you call for war we must answer…life is bigger that who as money and who doesn’t.
We must not all be millionaires to be happy. I wish you peace and all the best Annie, God knows I’ve tried.”
