I just read on the news where cookathon queen and Guinness World Book of Records most enduring cook, Hilda Baci said that her dressing, which has been shown to be overly provocative, does not determine her values.
This got me thinking. Could she be right? Is it true I can walk around naked and still teach Sunday School? Would I be a good role model if all I wear in public places is a pair of boxers that shows my ding dong dangling around, just because I preach to young girls to desist from premarital sex? What kind of value does a half naked woman with elaborate curves and body features bring on social media?
This is a lady who painted herself as a teacher of the sole way to a man’s heart – cooking mouthwatering dishes. Someone told me how his wife enrolled for one of the online cooking classes by Baci and afterwards, started preparing exciting dishes for his family.
So, should such testimonies cover for her voluptuous appearances? This is the kind of lady that forces a pious man to keep his gaze down and down and down till she walks pass. This is the kind of lady that could cause a rift between a jealous wife and a husband who cannot help but to stare and stare and stare. There is no confusion about this.
The same way, we might find it rather uncomfortable to accept same sex affairs in African societies is the same way it would be near impossible for us to fully accept that suggestive dress code as advocated and displayed by Hilda Baci does not determine her values.
I watched video clips from her birthday party. You need to see what she donned to the party. It was a net of sorts that showed her panties and bra and every other thing in between. And she would bend over at intervals to wiggle her butt cheeks to the rhythm of the music. You should not watch it if you are a pious man…like me. So, you can’t tell me that a young lady exuding that level of sexual vibes, has decent values.
So, my personal opinion to Hilda Baci is; my dear, you can delude yourself that you are a person of strong moral values while dressed as a whore. You can only deceive those same kind of people who agree with the white man that says he is now identifying as a lesbian black woman.
